| Posted: December 4, 2009 11:38 PM by: Odilon (Ody) dela Merced |
I have Filipino clients living or have migrated in western countries that are struggling to preserve the Filipino culture within their families. They speak and insist on speaking tagalog in their homes to help maintain in their children valuable Filipino culture. Their children practice the traditional "mano" upon greeting their parents. They remain religious. They are open and genuinely friendly with co-Filipinos. And they are vocal about their disdain to second and third generation Filipinos living in their neighborhood that became westernized almost completely.
On the other hand, what I saw in Saudi Arabia was different. I have never experienced back stabbing, double faced Filipino co-employees elsewhere. They pretend to be your friend in your company but completely puts you down when your back is turned. And this seems to be consistent with my friend's experience in other parts of Saudi Arabia who stayed there much longer than I did. I think I have seen the worst character in Filipinos in that middle eastern country.
Is it because the scums of Philippine society had to desperately accept jobs in this Islamic state because they can't find work elsewhere? Or is it because, Filipinos show their worst character in societies where the Filipino culture is suppressed such as not being able to practice Catholic religion?
My friends in Dubai and in Quatar tell me a different story. They say that whenever Filipinos got together, they felt right at home as if they were in the Philippines. They were a lot wholesome than the ones I saw in Saudi Arabia.
In a multi-cultured society such as Singapore, I saw the happiest Filipinos even if their families were not with them but remained in the Philippines. This makes me think that maybe it is because Filipinos are allowed to practice openly their Catholic religion. I find that this is not the only reason.
From a completely open society such as in western countries where new Filipino migrants are struggling to maintain their Filipino culture to multi-culture society such as Singapore where Catholic religion is not only allowed but encouraged to Middle Eastern Countries where religious freedom is allowed such as Dubai and Quatar albeit majority are Arabs and then, finally, to a strict Islamic state of Saudi Arabia there appears to be the following general observation: If the Filipino is exposed to very liberal society such as western countries, he tends to get inculturated and struggles hard to maintain his Filipino culture. If exposed to a strict Islamic state he shows the Mr. Hyde in him. If allowed freedom of religion but at the same time immersed in a society that generally maintains asian conservatism he becomes more at home. But if he lives in a society where the population is mostly east asian and allows freedom of religion, and government plays a dominant role in society, he becomes happiest.
So from my limited observation, maybe I have found the best model society for our OFW and that is a country where society is open yet not too liberal, where government is authoritarian yet benevolent, and where he is allowed and even encouraged to practice his religion.
Maybe that is the kind of society we need to have here in our own beloved country?
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Hi Ody! Please refrain from referring Tagalog as the Filipino National language. It is not! The national language is Filipino( or Pilipino). We in the academe prefer to use the one with the F. While the national language maybe modeled from Tagalog, initially, it has gone much evolution, and has a long long way, since Pres Manuel L Quezon declared it as the national language. The current vocabolary includes imeldific, balay, carinosa, and etc( which are definitely not Tagalog).